I am dealing, again, with a vast difference in how I feel I am and intend to express myself, with how I am read at work. It's all very distressing, down to my cells.
Udge has a Nohari Window up, and it makes a sort of practical sense to me. Help me out here, please. How do I come across? Probably very differently from how I seem at work. But who knows? I obviously don't. If you feel you can, please add the darker words in too, please.
Later:
So far, very interesting. I was thinking that most of my life I was disregarded and dismissed and underestimated. I learned to be heard in the Army. Not ideal, but damned effective. Rather like never being allowed make-up when younger, then not being able to afford it. But I took a year of Theatrical Make-up (got A's.) I can do thick stage makeup well, I can go bare faced, but I don't have any skill (nor any interest at this point, but it wasn't always so) in subtle day time stuff. Perhaps in a Trauma Center, my tone is normal, but in anyplace smaller, it's too loud. And the only other volume I know is too quiet to be heard. I need a middle way, and I don't know how to do that.
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Ah Zhoen. Sorry this is hard.
Have done the first one. Difficult t an extent because I dont know you IRL.
Good luck, my friend.
I've had a go at the light ones, but couldnt get to grips with the darkside sorry...
that is the problem with it ...black and white, when we are really shades of grey.
anyway I think your voice is just right!
xoxoxo
well, yeah, Zhoen. But like all such testy things, to be taken with a few pounds of salt. The result would be very different if we could use all the adjectives and rank them in order of applicability, say. Know that you are loved and treasured and respected.
Will email you.
(o)
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