Sunday, December 01, 2013

Claimant

Time off seems so rare, I barely know what to do with it all. Four days seems a very long stretch. This may say something rather unpleasant about my life, that I don't get a month in the country every summer. Not even the two weeks vacation my father got from the factory. Or about the world. Certainly about how the US workforce is treated. But I get my days, here and there, rather than in a lump, and that suits me well enough. I barely get tired of doing nothing, and the break is over.

Thoroughly enjoying the idleness, time with D, and the cats. We have come to enjoy preparing meals together. We have always talked together, made each other laugh





She has definitively claimed us. Moby is more content in himself, these days, secure in our love, on walkabout in his own dreamtime.

We got a few bits of much needed clothing. Most of mine has gotten rather shabby, mostly because I don't wear my own clothes for work. Except for the cotton hats. Sent for a couple more of those. I could wear the paper bouffants, but the elastic, to which I have a mild allergy, leaves a red mark across my forehead, and it doesn't hold my hair in. The fabric ones keep my hair from drying out as much, they stay on without needing to be reminded, and they are colorful. Makes me easy to identify from a distance, patients remember me.

I've resigned myself to simply buying men's clothing. Can't find a shirt among the women's clothes that doesn't cling or is in a putrid color, or won't go through the laundry twice before disintegrating. Women's jeans aren't quite so bad, if I stick to the old brands. My clothes are so utilitarian these days, nearly impossible for me to dress up. A few skirts, no fancy shirts, even dressy sweaters, to go over. Always a botch. Nothing new, really, just a matter of degree.

So, I buy medium men's shirts, and slouch provocatively, you know, like in the ads.






6 comments:

gz said...

mens' clothing seems to be cut and made better..perhaps because they reckon they'll complain harder if it falls apart?

the polish chick said...

not only that, but i have found when shopping with the mister that the same store will have men's items on sale at much lower prices than the corresponding women's clothes. so his reduced pants will be 9.99 and mine 29.99. what gives?

i'm the opposite of you. i love clothes, love dressing up, and likely have far too many. but they do give me pleasure.

as for the provocative slouching - snarf! bang on!

Zhoen said...

gz,
Or that women's clothing will be out of fashion before it wears out? No clue.

pc,
Oh, I love clothes, I just don't feel like I can find anything flattering at a reasonable price that is also comfortable. I've surrendered to the inevitability of ever being elegant.

Pam said...

Lovely fluffy cat!

Zhoen said...

Isabelle,
And very soft and silky, too.

Phil Plasma said...

I am fortunate that in most stores things right off the shelf seem to fit me quite well. Early in the week I tend to dress up and shave each morning, later in the week I tend to wear less nice clothes and skip a day shaving. Where in the middle I flip from on to the other varies from week to week. Some weeks as early as Tuesday it becomes the latter half. Other weeks as late as Friday before I dress down. Most weeks it is either Wednesday or Thursday that is my first dress down day.