Blankets



It must be admitted, this is not an appealing baby. I keep laughing at how utterly grumpy I was.

Going through old photos, to see if I can add to the Now and Then project. Nothing terribly promising, but I will be working on it.

But I did find this list, in my mother's handwriting. Italics my notations.

(Zhoen)'s Gifts

Mom - Bath Blanket- bib 2 nightgowns
Maternal grandmother

Evelyn - White sweater Set - (Christening)
Mother's oldest sister, my dear aunt

Peggy - 2 nightgowns 2 receiving blankets.
Could be one of two aunts

Frances- Hat & booties. - white
cousin?

Grace - 1 dz diapers, White dress (blue buttons.
Mother's second oldest sister

Aunt Belle - $1. 00
A great aunt? vague memories

Mrs. Giblin 2 dresses & 2 slips white.
neighbor, one of my elderly ladies that I visited

Mrs. Oesdean - Blue Sweater set. 2 silver dollars
another elderly lady on my rounds

Thelma - Large Pink blanket.
no idea

Neighbor - Yellow pants (plastic)
even my mother apparently had no idea

Mrs. Du Pra - 3 pr pants 3 pr socks nightgown rattle Blue Dress
another Elderly Lady neighbor

Betty - 2 receiving blankets 2 nightgowns.
Father's brother's wife, not a favorite

Priscilla - Yellow bunting Kitten bottle holder
no idea

Milton & Alma - Car bed
Dear Aunt Alma, Uncle Milton the most prosperous of father's brothers, and most generous

Art & Mary $10.00
Father's 2nd oldest brother & wife, my godparents

Carol $5.00
Their daughter, only cousin on paternal side

Helen Silver Dollar.
Mother's friend?

Mr & Mrs. Salliotte - White receiving blanket.
Neighborhood couple

Evelyn - 1st doll 3 months.
My aunt again, I think I know which doll

Elizabeth - Musical bunny.
First cousin now in Massachusetts, how could I have forgotten a musical bunny? I'm sure I loved it to bits before I could remember having it.



Mary's -

Rene - Chocolate & African Violet wow
Art & Mary - Mums.


Nightgowns/dresses - 10

Blankets - 6 (ok, this was February in Michigan.)

Cash - $19.00, including $3 silver. (About $142.00 today.)



This was 1962, some of these were extraordinarily generous, that so many neighbors gave gifts is touching. But notice, my paternal grandmother is not listed. I was one of only two grandchildren on that side, Carol was a good 20 years older. Not all the aunts are on here. My father's gift to my mother is a bit strange - she was never much for chocolate, nor violets. And why did she even put that on the list, a gift from her husband? My sense today that I was not particularly wanted in the family - at least in some quarters - seems hinted at here. The ones who loved me later are here already. Just something odd and off about it, hard to describe clearly.

Or maybe 50 years ago really is a different country.




8 comments:

Blogger Joan said...

I have seen that look before-- usually on the faces of highly intelligent babies who are thoroughly pissed off at being so small and powerless.

00:31  
Blogger Lucy said...

I was a scowly baby too!

The list is quite fascinating. Among the odder items the 'yellow bunting Kitten bottle holder' and the yellow plastic pants from the Unknown Neighbour. And what is a 'receiving blanket'?

14:43  
Blogger Zhoen said...

Joan,
"I......'m not sure about the way this is goin'."

Lucy,
Small, lightweight cloth for swaddling infants.
http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-a-receiving-blanket.htm

I only know them from hospitals, so I had to look it up to make sure the general definition held.

17:31  
Blogger Fire Bird said...

a receiving blanket is such an interesting term which as you may have gathered we don't have in England... makes me think of the midwife spreading it out beneath a woman in labour to receive the neonate as it emerges

02:01  
Blogger Zhoen said...

Fire Bird,
You are not far off, it is the blanket to first hold a slippery infant. What might be the British term? Swaddling blanket? Must check over at Separated by a Common Language.

06:14  
Blogger The Crow said...

I think that baby Zhoen was getting ready for what lay in store for her; a very prescient soul, she.

14:51  
Blogger Phil Plasma said...

5 minutes ago is a different country.

18:03  
Blogger Zhoen said...

Crow,
Hard to run away, at that age. I had to be less than 6 months here.

Phil.
Very true.

18:06  

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